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Welcome to 101ChristianDatingAdvice.com! This website seeks to give you dating advice you can really use! That may sound strange bit on so many websites and in so many books there is so much guff regarding dating and the things that are really important when it comes to meeting people in general, secondly meeting the right person, thirdly how to take meeting new people in your stride and lastly how to prepare yourself in the ways that matter, self confidence in the Lord and making those changes that might be necessary to make you more attractive but also, and probably more importantly, things you might need to change about yourself when going from a the single life to the life shared with another so your relationship can be more successful in all the ways that really matter as a Christian long-term!
History of 101Christian Date Guide (now ‘..datingadvice’)
101ChristianDatingGuide was the first full and complete online dating tips and advice site on the web. It was written between 1999-2001 after it’s author read several ‘dating advice’ books and decided to make his own attempt at helping people prepare for dates, successfully find a date and finally find a suitable marriage partner for life!
And that’s the point – a lot or probably most of these dating guides and romance advice books were all secular and aimed at ‘dating’ as if it was some kind of sport. You know – how you can attract Pamela Anderson have fun and onto the next.
And the same dating advice for girls – how to attract a rich man and keep him interested and have as much fun as possible and then if it doesn’t work onto the next.
You see for a Christian, divorce is not an option, despite what some liberal Christian ministers and pastors will tell you. Unlike other areas of Christian learning and doctrine I am not prepared to say I know something is correct and prefer (not being a ‘scholar’ to present the different views and ask the reader to make their own minds based on what The Bible says) Christian marriage this is one area where I will put my money where my mouth is and say I know this is correct.
So then this dating guide for Christians and in fact the entire 101ChristianNetwork of sites for singles is designed to help you find someone for life – not go through a string of unsuccessful dates and flings! I sincerely hope that when you use our free Christian singles dating service you will take the time to prepare your heart and mind for a lifetime partner and if you are unsure about anything – try earnestly with God to get things straightened out first in your own life before you carry it into a relationship and into the lives of others.
Hi there! As you may or may not have noticed, there are several ‘101’ dating advice sites on the web these days but you probably don’t realise that this site was the original – written around the year 1999 after the author read a slew of bad secular dating books and felt that there needed to be something more spiritually based on God and His Word and The Bible. So unlike most of the other guides out there, this one is specially for Christians to help them in their singles walk. No mean feat these days!
The Bible does not really offer much in the way of advice in the arena courting, however anyone that has read it cover to cover gets a very very good idea of the kinds of things we as Christians should be looking for in a husband or wife – after all we’re not dating for fun – we’re looking for a spouse right?! It’s very clear that character comes way before looks, beauty and riches – and that seeking after anything else exclusively is futile, and whilst it may be fun for a short time, it’s likely to end in tears if we have not based our choice on the sound character traits described in The Bible and not only that – we are both committed at the start to remain faithful and stick with that person we have chosen through thick and thin, rich or poor and yes – health and sickness just as our Lord does with us and has done with Israel despite all her and our faults.
It’s about time Christian singles were told the truth; it’s not about waiting for the perfect person – it’s about making yourself the ‘perfect’ person (clearly no one’s perfect but that’s not the point here) for your partner and allowing God to shape you into Christ’s likeness. Forget the other person being perfect until you are in your best shape spiritually, physically and mentally! At that point you can expect God to give you the keys to the Ferrari and not sooner!
101 Christian singles and dating advice website is a simple to use and plain speaking – no-nonsense set or articles and pages that give you guidelines for dating in gerneral, tips and date advice when you actually have found yourself someone of interest and also lots of ideas for you to consider when you are about to embark on a romantic night out with someone you met!
The site also reviews several online dating agencies and tries to seek out not just the most popular Christian dating agencies online – but those that actually have your best interests at heart and work! You can journet with us as we take a look at lots of matchmaker sites and services. Many services out there on the Internet have been reported in a negative light from our members, these are sites that look professional, charge a lot and offer very little in return and – 90% are not owned by believers at all but by secular companies and just operated for profit. 101 has YOUR interests very close to it’s heart as it was begun solely to help all church goers everywhere that are struggling to meet new people and single friends.
We always try to give give where appropriate, Bible references that are helpful for Christian singles. The best Christian singles and dating books of which there are literally hundreds. We give you links so you van buy the best and recommended of these books from Amazon!
. Reviewed are Christian singles books – so you can gain insight and experience from other Christians on the subject of singleness, how to find that perfect partner, find dates or just be happy being single! 101 also provides information on the cheapest, the most expensive and the best value date services for singles and Christian dating sites.
So you should by browsing these articles be able to find some of the best Christian web sites of interest, Internet bookstores that sell related books on dating etc, and of course many many Christian singles advice articles such as how to be confident, preparing for a meeting with someone and the inds of things than men and women generally and reasonably expect from each other.
We also talk about what it is not reasonable to expect from other people (see Christian single guidelines) – especially Christians who have a hard enough time meeting a suitable partner let alone marrying one!
There are a tonne of ways to kindle a relationship and we want to help you by giving you suggestions you can use online via the Internet or offline at events and other social gatherings and more. Please note that all of our advice is always from a Christian viewpoint as the world has very different dating rules than believers do and it is very important that you remain pure if possible for your spouse and that meeting people is not treated as a ‘sport’ and conducted in a proper manner before God. May God bless your search for a spouse – all at 101.
We wish you God’s best blessings in your search for a Christian husband or wife using our sites and services and sincerely pray that you fond this and our other websites designed to help Christians to meet more easily useful!
God bless you – 101 🙂