OK – Im posting this because I just saw a girl do a so-called ‘Christian dating advice’ or ‘help’ video for single Christians on YouTube (not the one below). Trouble is, what would have been an OK dating advice video was made absolutely terrible – as the Christian girl doing the video was overly made up to look gorgeous obviously to attract guys to the video (completely unnecessary as she was naturally good looking).
I guess I cannot fault her there, HOWEVER – the girl was also wearing next to NOTHING!.. and continuously making gestures towards her chest that was half exposed and just totally flirtatious and all the time trying to appear as if she was not doing it in a flirtatious way.
This unfortunately is the kind of hair-brained ‘Christians’ we have created with churches like Hillsong and what I call the ‘Hillsong Generation’ where it’s all about appearance, looking good, affluence, decadence, being cool and very little about Bible and Jesus. You know that church that is so not like the biblical description of church it makes the rest that I thought were unbiblical look positively saintly.
A lot of great Christian dating advice videos!
Anyway – breath of fresh air – I did another search for Christian dating advice and came across this; a really nice looking Christian girl that DOES know what she’s talking about – does keep herself modest so as not to be speaking from both sides of her mouth – one side telling the guys not to lust and the other flashing her assets.
I’m afraid this is what happened so don’t blame me – and no I’m not going to add a link to the ‘other’ bad video to get you into trouble. And just incase you think I over reacted – the comments on the said video agree with me on this and frankly I am sick of it.
So – back to the good Christian dating advice video that really does give useful insights into how Christian women think about Christian guys and how guys can approach them without putting them off and be confident the girl (or man) you are approaching will be nice in return – even if it doesn’t turn out to be your spouse! Happy viewing and God bless you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlGhxspWmZM